The shock of knowing your baby was dying was one thing but we weren't prepared to find out that our options were limited. I would not wish this on anyone. We held Kenny for hours and introduced him to his grandparents. We saw him just 11 days before to diagnose a placenta Previa. We will understand your devastation like no one else can because we are devastated too.
Another more recent study, conducted instudied male and female heart rates, finding no significant difference between the heart rates based on gender. But I was glad to have my final hours together with him - it seemed neither of us was in any hurry to be parted from the other.
The pain and the joy still found me. It felt like a sick joke, I was getting the boy I wanted but once he was born I would have to bury him. Please log in to comment. I had a textbook pregnancy; he was perfect. Every single piece of this story hits home. I couldn't handle that. Mostly, we were left on our own.
As the baby matures, the heart rate adjusts to its size. Chinese Gender Predictor. National Institutes of Health, National Library of Medicine, Selective and persistent effect of foetal sex on cognition in pregnant womenMay So why not have a little fun just to break the monotony and see if you can both take a punt of whether you are having a boy or a girl?
This time I choose to deliver so I could say goodbye, and hold him. I was induced the next day and had a dedicated perinatal nurse, who has since become my friend. Thank you all for sharing your stories.